{"id":1235,"date":"2014-09-11T17:03:03","date_gmt":"2014-09-11T17:03:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/jamaicahospital.org\/newsletter\/?p=1235"},"modified":"2024-05-09T03:34:09","modified_gmt":"2024-05-09T03:34:09","slug":"are-you-raising-a-tween","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/jamaicahospital.org\/newsletter\/are-you-raising-a-tween\/","title":{"rendered":"Are You Raising a Tween?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Want to be a great parent? Want to raise a happy, healthy, well-behaved child? The secret is to create a closer connection.One of the most frightening times for parents is when your adorable young child becomes a tween. All of a sudden, that child who needed your nurturing has acquired a strong opinion, can debate brilliantly and, often times, experiences ups and downs.<\/p>\n<p>Just as when your child was a toddler, parents need to accept and constructively negotiate their child\u2019s newest growth of independence. Using constructive negotiation may avoid a disconnect with your tween.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0The best way to navigate the tween years is by staying connected to your child. Having dinner together, as often as possible, is a great place to start. Sharing private time with your child will invite conversation. Use conversation with your tween as a trust building\/getting-to-know-you again exercise. Building trust is key for your tween to be able to confide in you.<\/p>\n<p>Additional tips to stay connected to your tween are:<\/p>\n<p>Recognize their need for independence.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Re-think your previous ideas about discipline.<\/li>\n<li>Don\u2019t take it personally.<\/li>\n<li>Use the tween years to teach values.<\/li>\n<li>Be aware of the pop culture they are exposed to.<\/li>\n<li>Stay aware of their schoolwork.<\/li>\n<li>Know their friend-base.<\/li>\n<li>Keep in mind that they are actively shaping their identity.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u00a0Being a tween is a confusing time for your child. Don\u2019t wait until you see that your relationship needs some repair work&#8230;\u00a0 It\u2019s never too late to build a great relationship with your child.<\/p>\n<p class=\"disclaimer\">All content of this newsletter is intended for general information purposes only and is not intended or implied to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.  Please consult a medical professional before adopting any of the suggestions on this page.   You must never disregard professional medical advice or delay seeking medical treatment based upon any content of this newsletter.<strong>  PROMPTLY CONSULT YOUR PHYSICIAN OR CALL 911 IF YOU BELIEVE YOU HAVE A MEDICAL EMERGENCY.<\/strong> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; Want to be a great parent? Want to raise a happy, healthy, well-behaved child? The secret is to create a closer connection.One of the most frightening times for parents is when your adorable young child becomes a tween. All &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/jamaicahospital.org\/newsletter\/are-you-raising-a-tween\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1235","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-health"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/jamaicahospital.org\/newsletter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1235","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/jamaicahospital.org\/newsletter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/jamaicahospital.org\/newsletter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jamaicahospital.org\/newsletter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/6"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jamaicahospital.org\/newsletter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1235"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/jamaicahospital.org\/newsletter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1235\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":11143,"href":"https:\/\/jamaicahospital.org\/newsletter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1235\/revisions\/11143"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/jamaicahospital.org\/newsletter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1235"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jamaicahospital.org\/newsletter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1235"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/jamaicahospital.org\/newsletter\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1235"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}